This was the first year I did not celebrate Thanksgiving with my family and I was determined to still have the traditional dinner with turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffed mushrooms, the works…It doesn’t help that my roommate is a vegetarian and even with my skill to house food, I don’t think I could have eaten an entire turkey by myself. So Sam settled on a veggie patty for her main course and I decided to cook pheasant (side note: I have never cooked nor eaten pheasant). We made a Facebook event entitled “Loneliest Thanksgiving Everrr” to be obnoxious and only invited each other and even joked about playing “All By Myself” during dinner just to point out even more that it was only the two of us on Thanksgiving. Our friend Robin saw the Facebook group and must have taken pity on us because he invited us to a Thanksgiving dinner at PSV which is their student housing. Unfortunately, they were making chicken as the main meal, but I thought it would be nice to be around people for the holiday. Robin said to come to dinner on Thursday at 6 and the only requirement was that we bring something, and Sam had a recipe for sweet potato muffins that we decided we would make and everything was set – we had Thanksgiving plans!

During this time, Sam was also taking a new pain medication for her jaw that was making her nauseous. She had to leave work early on Wednesday night and then was still very sick the next day. So I spent the day running around by myself buying all the ingredients for the sweet potato muffins. The supermarket didn’t have canned sweet potatoes so we had to buy actual sweet potatoes and a potato masher – already this was turning into more work than I’m accustomed to. Poor Sam was very nice to still agree to make the muffins and go to the dinner even though she was sick because she knew how much I was looking forward to it. So the two of us started to bake in our extremely small kitchen, and when we were finished it looked like a bomb exploded inside a sweet potato – everything was orange! We decided to leave the dishes for another day, a day in the very distant future. We got dressed up in cute dresses, stacked the muffins on plates for presentation and headed out the door. We were running late as always so we decided to take a cab there. I was not about to miss all that food! I had purposely not eaten all day so I could have a huge dinner (except for maybe a little tiny bit of the muffin batter…okay a lot of the muffin batter).
We had only been to PSV once before so Robin gave us directions. We got a little lost but finally found it. I was expecting the dinner to be outside in the courtyard but there was nothing there so we thought maybe he was just having it inside in his apartment. When we got to the door, Robin and his roommate Jed were in the kitchen cooking but they did not look happy to see us. Apparently, Robin had written back on Facebook saying the dinner was actually tomorrow night…on Friday. Needless to say, we did not get that message. Awkwaarrddd. They told us to stay and they would cook dinner for us since they were already cooking. I wasn’t about to turn down a home-made meal and I was starving so we decided to stay. It was a little awkward at first cause they were in the kitchen cooking as Sam and I played card games at the kitchen table, but then it was nice just to sit down to dinner with people and talk about new things (even if we did technically force them into it.)
And that was our Thanksgiving dinner! It wasn’t the traditional turkey dinner I had planned; instead it was chicken stir-fry fajitas…with a side of sweet potato muffins. But even though it wasn’t the dinner I had been planning, I was thankful that Sam and I were able to be around people for the holiday and that we were able to come back to New Zealand and have these new experiences. Obviously I missed my family and skyping with them the next day as they celebrated Thanksgiving was amazing and definitely brought a few tears.